You need a solid technique that will work everytime in every circumstance.
If you can’t even communicate your argument, guess what: you are in sorry shape. You need to remember, losing an argument shows in your character. The outcome of a fierce argument resonates in your society. People WILL remember your statements and you don't want them remembering you as... “That guy who talked a lot of S!#%t, or “The woman with a bad attitude.”
When you argue, do you wish someone would listen to you? Or you could explain something to someone better? What about the constant bicker, not letting you get a word out? Your mouth is a tool. Use it.
There are a number of classic flaws that you probably can’t kick. You might allow your “point” to be derailed and your pride and sensitivity to get the best of you.
You need to learn how to “Plow” through the personal insults and low blows, punish them for bringing it up and build their respect and understanding for your argument, no matter what your opponent’s level of intelligence is.
Take a second and imagine yourself as a verbal assassin.
Learn how to get raises from your boss or from the president, hammer a salesman into submission for the ultimate discount, zip an abusive person’s mouth shut for good. Make sure your insulting neighbor never says a negative word to you again.
Who has the time to go back & forth with someone who is misunderstanding, degrading and talking over you? I don’t know about you, but I don’t have the time for it. I put them to rest easy. I am careful about what I say, composed, fluidly stopping anyone in their tracks that disrespects me in the least bit.
So this is where I come in. My specialty is arguments. Other people specialize in music, numbers or law, I argue and win, because that’s what I love to do, and have made a living at it for 15 years.
I am going to train you to argue like a champion. I will teach you how to use powerful verbal techniques that will have a devastating effect on whoever you are arguing with.
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